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Summer Holidays and Child Arrangement Order

With summer just around the corner, many parents are beginning to think about their long-awaited holidays. For separated parents, however, planning a holiday with children comes with additional considerations. To avoid potential complications and ensure a stress-free summer, it’s important to handle these discussions with care and well in advance.
Understanding Your Legal Obligations
If you share parental responsibility and are planning a holiday with your children, obtaining agreement from the other parent is essential. Without this permission, you could face serious consequences, including allegations of child abduction. However, if you have a Child Arrangement Order stating the child(ren) “live with” you, you are permitted to take them out of the UK for up to 28 days for a family holiday. Despite this legal provision, seeking the agreement of the other parent remains highly advisable.
Many countries have entry requirements that may involve producing documentation that shows parental consent for travel. To avoid issues at border control, ensure that you verify the specific requirements for your destination before travelling.
Top Tips for Stress-Free Summer Holiday Planning
Here are some crucial steps to help separated parents organise their holidays seamlessly:
- Discuss Holiday Plans Early
Initiate conversations with the other parent as early as possible. This allows enough time to address any disagreements and make alternative arrangements if required. If a Child Arrangement Order is in place, consider the other parent’s contact schedule, so they do not miss out on quality time with the child(ren). If needed, propose an alternative arrangement to make up for the missed time.
- Secure a Written Agreement
Ask the other parent for a clear agreement in writing. Written consent provides clarity and prevents misunderstandings that could arise later. A signed letter or email suffices and can provide peace of mind if any disputes occur.
- Share Your Itinerary
Prepare and share a detailed itinerary with the other parent. This should include:
- Flight details (with times and numbers)
- Accommodation address and contact information
- Emergency contact numbers
This level of transparency helps reassure the other parent and promotes a harmonious co-parenting relationship
- Prioritise the Well-being of Your Children
Holidays are an opportunity to create joyful family memories, so remember that the primary focus should be on the happiness and well-being of your child(ren). A harmonious co-parenting approach can make the summer more enjoyable for everyone involved.
What to Do If You Cannot Agree
If, despite your best efforts, you are unable to reach an agreement regarding holiday plans, you may need to apply for a Specific Issue Order through the Family Court. This legal process allows the court to decide on matters such as taking children abroad when parents cannot agree. Given that this is not a quick process, it’s crucial to seek professional legal advice as soon as possible.
Rely on Expert Legal Support
At CJCH Solicitors, our experienced Childcare Solicitors specialise in helping separated parents resolve issues surrounding holiday arrangements and other parenting disputes. If you need guidance on obtaining a Specific Issue Order or ensuring compliance with your Child Arrangement Order, we are here to provide expert assistance every step of the way.
Plan your summer holiday confidently by speaking to our legal experts. Reach out to the team at CJCH Solicitors to book a consultation and take the first step towards a smoother holiday planning experience.
By being proactive and following these steps, separated parents can enjoy a stress-free summer while creating meaningful memories with their children.
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